Good Morning,
I've been sitting here pondering on something. I noticed all the websites ask about religion, race, employment, etc. The thing that gets to me is why are people very lopsided when it comes to some things and not others. ok, let me explain. You have your set races that you want to date and you won't waver on those... White, Pacific Islander, Middle Eastern.... Or employment or the amount of money someone makes, or they must have a degree... But everyone puts their religion down... Catholic Christian, Christian/other, Christian/Protestant, Jewish, etc... Yet, I put that... and have a disclaimer that I'm not having sex until marriage which from my understanding we're all suppose to do that... lol I am told I need to adjust because no one is going for that... Or they say that's fine as long as you will do other things. I ask... Like what?.... Of course, they think oral... UM, that's still a form of sex people.
I'm not saying I'm perfect but I'm trying to be better. I'm not saying I'm better than anyone else and that I'm some robot but have we all become so sexualized that you can't even Court/date and get to know a person for real before you have sex. I won't adjust my standards... why should I... Yours is materialistic, educational, employment status or race... Mine is trying to do the right things. I don't get it. Why do I have to conform too you when you may be temporary.... If you can't get a connection without physical connections then what happens when you get older... or God forbid become paralyzed, or really deal with some for sickness or for health...
what then... I don't know. What's the point of putting that you are a Christian, Muslim, Jewish religion for that matter when you look like everyone else. What distinguish you from everyone else? So when you get married... that's when you'll follow the rules.
Another thing I was thinking of... If an Atheist doesn't believe in God, then is their marriage just legally based. Who sets up the guidance on the marriage if it's not biblically based. Do they still say for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health. Is there sanctity in their marriage if they don't believe in it? I'm confused. Must be all legal then. What would be their foundation... the fact that they don't believe in the God that even gave the guidance of marriage... with Adam and Eve... Does that even make sense?
Not bashing just was pondering on things.
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